Do Not Judge

Jesus said, “Do not judge,” or “judge not,” (depending on your translation) in the Gospel of Matthew. It’s one of the most well-known statements of Jesus. But it’s also one of the most misunderstood and misquoted sayings in the entire Bible.

I ran across a meme some time ago which reflects how how many see or interpret this biblical phrase:

Some act as though Jesus called everyone’s attention, said “do not judge,” then said nothing else. But this is not what happened.

Matthew 7:1 is part of one of Jesus’ most well-known sermons, the Sermon on the Mount (Matthew Chapter 5-7). The Sermon on the Mount is a guide to Christian ethics. Don’t miss this–“do not judge” appears in a sermon on Christian ethics.

Here’s the biggest mistake I see in relation to this phrase: many believe that “do not judge” means we should never make any type of ethical assessment between right and wrong.

“Do not judge,” for example, is often spouted as an objection when we (believers) say that certain types of sexual behavior (such as homosexuality) are immoral/sinful. But let’s once again consider the context.

Here’s something Jesus said in Matthew 5:

“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart. 

Matthew 5:27-28

According to Jesus, an intense desire to have sex outside of marriage is just as evil as the act itself. The only thing lacking is opportunity when someone’s heart is in this sinful state. It’s beyond ludicrous to use Jesus’ words from this same sermon to justify an “anything goes” approach to human sexuality.

What exactly was Jesus warning us about, then? Let’s look at Matthew 7:1-5:

1“Judge not, that you be not judged. For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured to you. Why do you see the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when there is the log in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye.

Matthew 7:1-5

Here’s the point Jesus is making:

We should honestly look at ourselves before looking at others.

This doesn’t mean that we must be completely sinless in order to call something sinful. No one could make any type assessment if that was the case.

It does mean we should be constantly vigilant against hypocrisy. We all have a strong tendency towards self-deception and self-righteousness. It is very easy to see others’ flaws while being blind to my own. The Pharisees were masters of this hypocrisy, but we should be just the opposite. I like the way AW Tozer put it:

A pharisee is hard on others and easy on himself, but a spiritual man is easy on others and hard on himself.

-AW Tozer

The worst form of hypocrisy is to hold others to a standard that I myself am violating. Jesus used an outlandish (and humorous) image to make his point: imagine trying to remove a small piece of sawdust out of your brother’s eye while you have a huge plank protruding from your own.

Having a foreign object in your eye is not good–we all know the irritation a single eyelash can cause. Jesus did not say, “Ignore the log and the speck because after all I just said don’t judge.” Instead He said I must first examine myself so I can see clearly to help someone else come to repentance.

Part of my role as a pastor is to correct and rebuke (2nd Timothy 2:4). This happens through the proclamation of God’s word and can even happen privately. But I should always be harder on myself than I am with others.

This is the heart of Jesus’ teaching in Matthew 7:1-5.

Lord, please give me the courage to relentlessly examine my own heart and life in light of Your word. I pray that my own sin grieves me more than anyone else’s. May any correction from me come from a place of love and humility, not hypocrisy and self-righteousness.

2022: The Year in Review

It’s time for me to write another post and reflect on the passing year. This post may not be as long as some that I’ve written, but here goes:

Budget Crunch

I’ll start out with the bad news: this was a tough year financially. Record-level inflation, increased costs of living, and high gas prices made things difficult (I’m sure many who are reading this can relate). But it was also one of those years where it seemed that anything that could break did (I’m talking about expensive stuff, like car engines and teeth).

This may come across as a complaint, but it isn’t intended that way. I want to look back at this blog post and remember God’s faithfulness and provisions. We are blessed!

School Days

Clark began attending pre-kindergarten a nearby school this year. He loves his teachers and classmates, and wants to get up and attend every morning. It’s yet another reminder that the time is flying by and he’s growing up.

First Day of School

School did seem to bring some extra sniffles and sneezes into our lives, but that’s OK, too–might as well let Clark build up his immunity.

Notable Books

I didn’t read quite as many books this year (something I need to change next year). Anyway, I did read Trueman’s The Rise and Triumph of the Modern Self. This book was kind of an autopsy of Western civilization. In other words, the author explained how we have reached such an absurd place in Western thought–a place where believing in objective biological realities about gender is now considered narrow-minded and bigoted. This book was helpful for cultural understanding but a bit difficult to slog through. I wish I had instead read Strange New World, Trueman’s newer book. I hear that it is updated and more readable (less academically oriented).

I also read James Snyder’s The Life of A.W. Tozer: In Pursuit of God. I’ve always loved Tozer’s writing, but I’ve never taken the time to learn much about his life. Snyder did a commendable job of describing both Tozer’s deep love for God and his flaws as a family man. Tozer was faithful to his wife, but he was emotionally distant as a husband and father. This shocked me and I’m still not sure how to wrap my mind around it (definitely another reason to avoid hero worship of one’s favorite preacher/author). Snyder was even-handed as a biographer: honest but not overly critical. I found this book to be very compelling and finished it quickly.

Church/Ministry

Some really good things happened in our church this year. Covid was no longer an issue (at least not in the way it has been) and we’ve had some new younger couples join our church. We also had a good friend of mine who is a pastor join our congregation. I’m thankful for these blessings! This was the first time in a couple of years that we’ve been able to return to a full ministry schedule (vacation Bible school, trunk or treat, etc.).

Trunk or Treat 2022

I finished preaching through Romans and I’m now preaching through the Gospel of Matthew. The more I study God’s word the more I find myself in awe of it!

Family

God continued to bless our family this year. We’ve enjoyed watching our son grow up, another year of marriage, and we’ve had opportunities to visit my family in Alabama. We came to celebrate dad’s birthday back in May and we are spending the holidays in Alabama as I write (first time since 2015).

Future

2023 has already thrown us one little curve ball: we will be celebrating the first couple of days of it here in Alabama instead of Texas. Our return flight was one of thousands that were cancelled by Southwest. That’s no big deal, especially considering that I wrote about God’s prerogative to change our plans.

I know 2023 will be full of challenges, opportunities, and changes. I’m looking forward to seeing what He does through all of these.

Happy New Year!