Preaching for Life (My New Book)

I’m excited to announce the publication of my new book!

The title is Preaching for Life: A Pastor’s Journey of Biblical Proclamation.

Preaching for life cover

As with any project, this has been a team effort. I’m deeply grateful to everyone who has contributed and helped make this happen. I want give special shout-outs to my friends Mary Ann Fortner for proofreading and Erwin Cabalang for the cover design (more names are in the Acknowledgements section at the end of the book).

I’d also like to thank PublishingServices.com for the excellent formatting work.

Here’s the book description:

What do I wish I knew about preaching when I was first called into ministry years ago? What advice would I give to someone who has just begun preaching? How can you be sure you’ll have something to preach on every Sunday? I answer these and other questions in Preaching for Life. I pray this book will help you start well and finish strong in your ministry of biblical proclamation.

Topics include:

  • Preaching by the Book
  • Using Illustrations
  • Using Humor
  • Preaching Holidays
  • Preaching Funerals
  • Preaching Authentically
  • G-rated Preaching in an X-Rated World
  • Addressing Political and Social Issues

Also Included:

  • Three Sermon Summaries
  • Six Devotionals for Pastors

How to Order

This book is available through Amazon in both Kindle and hard copy formats.

How you can help

  • Pray that this book would be used to equip and encourage preachers.
  • Order the book if you are a interested in the topic.
  • Please leave a positive review on Amazon if you think it deserves it.
  • Last but not least, please share this post on your social media accounts or invite me to podcasts/Youtube interviews.

To God be the glory!

The Gospel, Homosexuality, and Gay “Marriage”

Note: This is a post I first wrote years ago when the issue of legalizing gay “marriage” was at the forefront of the news. I have since expanded it and will feature it here every June.

Gay “marriage” seems to be a hot topic right now since some parts of the world are changing their laws to make it legal (including here in the USA).

My regular readers know where I stand on this, but I want to reiterate what the Bible teaches for those who may be searching for the truth. What I’m about to say may not be popular, but that doesn’t really concern me.

What does the Bible really say about homosexuality? Let’s first consider three points:

The Biblical Foundation:

We need look no further than the second chapter of Genesis to see God’s original plan for love, sex and marriage:

That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh. –Genesis 2:24

There you have it: God’s designed sex to be experienced by one man and one woman in a covenant of marriage (a “one flesh” union). He did not make a mistake in His original plan.

The Biblical Condemnation:

The Old Testament law lists homosexual behavior among practices unacceptable to God:

Do not have sexual relations with a man as one does with a woman; that is detestable.
–Leviticus 18:22

The New Testament describes homosexual behavior as “unnatural.” Greek scholar William Mounce describes Romans 1:26-27 as the “clearest teaching in the in the New Testament on homosexuality” in his commentary on Romans.

Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural sexual relations for unnatural ones. In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed shameful acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their error.
–Romans 1:26-27

There are other Scriptures, but I’ll get to that later.

The Absence of Biblical Celebration:

The Bible repeatedly celebrates the relationship between husband and wife. Proverbs puts it this way:

He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD. 
–Proverbs 18:22

The Song of Solomon (also called Song of Songs) celebrates the sexual love and desire between a young bride and her husband:

Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth—
for your love is more delightful than wine.
Pleasing is the fragrance of your perfumes;
your name is like perfume poured out.
No wonder the young women love you!
Take me away with you—let us hurry!
Let the king bring me into his chambers.
-Song of Solomon 1:2-4

But you won’t find a single verse in the Bible celebrating homosexual acts/relationships—not one! There is simply no indication that God blesses or condones any kind of same-sex union. Wouldn’t homosexuality be celebrated in the Scriptures in some way if these relationships were part of His plan for human flourishing?

People can try to twist the Scriptures any way they like, but the Biblical message is clear: God’s plan for love and sex has not changed.

I’ve explained the biblical foundation, the biblical condemnation, and the lack of biblical celebration in regards to homosexuality. Now let me share one more thing:

The Biblical Solution—The Gospel:

Is there any hope for those who struggle with same-sex attraction? Yes! It’s the same hope that is available to murderers, adulterers, drug addicts, alcoholics, liars, churchgoers, preachers, campus ministers, and bloggers. We all desperately need the Gospelthe good news of a Savior who offers forgiveness to those who repent and believe.

Repent, then, and turn to God, so that your sins may be wiped out, that times of refreshing may come from the Lord 
-Acts 3:19

Notice the word “repent.” This word indicates a change of mind and a change of direction in one’s life. Repentance is agreement with God on the nature of sin and my need for the life-changing gospel.

This gospel has been changing lives since the ancient church. We see it in Paul’s admonitions to the believers in Corinth:

Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God. 
-1st Corinthians 6:9-11

Pay careful attention to the last two sentences (vs. 11). Those trapped in all kinds of sins (including homosexual sins) where changed by the power of the gospel!

Here’s what grieves me about churches that condone gay “weddings” or homosexuality: they have ignored the biblical definition of sin. This kind of teaching leaves us with people professing to be Christian, yet rejecting the clear teachings of Scripture.

Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness, who put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter. 
–Isaiah 5:20

Let me summarize the Gospel and how it relates to sexual purity:

1. All of us have sinned and fallen short. God’s holy nature required payment (sacrifice) to atone for our sins. God does not ignore sin or change his mind about it. Instead, He has dealt with it in a way that his consistent with His character. Salvation is offered freely to those who repent and believe in the gospel:

For everyone has sinned; we all fall short of God’s glorious standard. Yet God, with undeserved kindness, declares that we are righteous. He did this through Christ Jesus when he freed us from the penalty for our sins. For God presented Jesus as the sacrifice for sin. People are made right with God when they believe that Jesus sacrificed his life, shedding his blood 
–Romans 3:23-25

2. Followers of Jesus Christ are called and empowered to be holy. This means avoiding all forms of sexual immorality:

God’s will is for you to be holy, so stay away from all sexual sin. Then each of you will control his own body and live in holiness and honor—not in lustful passion like the pagans who do not know God and his ways. Never harm or cheat a Christian brother in this matter by violating his wife, for the Lord avenges all such sins, as we have solemnly warned you before. God has called us to live holy lives, not impure lives. Therefore, anyone who refuses to live by these rules is not disobeying human teaching but is rejecting God, who gives his Holy Spirit to you. 
-1st Thessalonians 4:3-8

This means that anyone who belongs to Christ has become a new person. The old life is gone; a new life has begun! -2nd Corinthians 5:17

Responding to Objections:

I’ve decided to expand this post a little in order to respond to some of the most common objections to the traditional interpretation of the Scriptures.

Some object to the quotation of Old Testament law, arguing that we (Christians) no longer practice the entire law.  Leviticus also has commandments against wearing clothing made from two different types of thread (Leviticus 19:19), for example.  I can’t fully address the Old and New Covenants in one post, so I’ll explain it this way: The sexual ethic, built on the foundation of Genesis 2:24, is consistent throughout the Scriptures.  We no longer practice some of the ceremonial laws of the Old Testament, but we do continue to follow the its moral laws.

Why didn’t Jesus ever directly address homosexuality?  Because his ministry was primarily to a Jewish audience that would have already understood the teachings of the Old Testament.

Jesus did define marriage as a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman (Matthew 19:4-9), referring back to Genesis 2:24.

Jesus also listed “sexual immorality” among the “evil things” that defile a person (Mark 7:21-23).   The Greek word we translate into “sexual immorality” comes from the root word porneia (from which we get the term pornography).  This term referred to any form of sex outside of marriage between a man and a woman.

Jesus never directly addressed incest, zoophilia, or child sacrifice (all of which are also mentioned in Leviticus 18:20-23), yet it would be completely absurd to assume he approved of these practices.

Paul  address the issue of homosexuality in more explicit terms because he ministered to Gentiles (non-Jews; pagans).  Some have challenged the translation of 1st Corinthians 6:9 (and 1st Timothy 1:10).  The word translated “men who have sex with men (NIV), or “men who practice homosexuality” (ESV) in 1st Corinthians 6:9 is a combination of two the Greek words. The first word is malakoi. It is sometimes translated “effeminate,” but it specifically referred to the passive male participant in homosexual acts. The second word is arsenokoitai (which also appears in 1st Timothy 1:10). It is an unusual word, but it isn’t really that difficult to explain.  Paul simply combines two words from the Greek translation of the Old Testament (the Septuagint): aresno (man), and koitai (to lie with–from which we get the English term coitus).  Both words appear in Leviticus 18:22. Arsenokoitai describes the active male participant in homosexual acts. By combining these words, Paul was reiterating the Old Testament prohibition of homosexual sin.

You may wonder why there are relatively few references to homosexuality in the Scriptures.  I think the answer is pretty simple–it’s the same reason that most of my articles regarding sexual purity are geared towards heterosexuals: sexual immorality between men and women is a lot more common than same-sex acts.

Final Thoughts:

I’m sure some of you reading this post are still convinced I’m wrong.  If nothing else I hope I have helped you understand why Christians believe marriage should only be between a man and a woman.

Recommended Reading:

William Lane Craig has written an excellent, in-depth article on his website: A Christian Perspective on Homosexuality.

Books:

Check out Kevin DeYoung’s,  What Does the Bible Really Teach About Homosexuality? if you want a good resource on this topic.

J.I. Packer on the Struggle with Sin

I ran across a devotional book at Dad’s house during our Christmas vacation. It is entitled Knowing and Doing the Will of God by J.I. Packer. I’m not sure how it ended up in his basement, but I grabbed it and decided to make it my 2025 devotional. This devotional is a compilation from other books put into a daily format (a paragraph or two for each date). I’ve enjoyed reading it and have been posting lines from it to my social media accounts like my Facebook page and my X account.

I’ve been thinking about one page/entry for a few days: Packer’s thoughts on Matthew 18:8 and the struggle with habitual or “besetting” sins (March 24, page 95). I’ll quote the whole entry:

While surrendering sins into which you drift casually is not so hard, mortifying what the Puritans called “besetting” sins–dispositional sins to which your temperament inclines you, and habitual sins that have become addictive and defiant–is regularly a long-draw-out, bruising struggle. No one who is a spiritual realist will ever pretend otherwise. It is a matter of negating, wishing dead, and laboring to thwart the inclinations, cravings, and habits that have been in you for a long time. Pain and grief, moans and groans, will certainly be involved, for your sin does not want to die, nor will it enjoy the killing process. Jesus told us, very vividly, that mortifying a sing could well feel like plucking out an eye or cutting off a hand or foot, in other words, self-mutilation. You will feel you are saying good-bye to something that is so much a part of you that without it you cannot live.

-J.I. Packer

The original source of this quote is from his book entitled Rediscovering Holiness.

I pray these thoughts will encourage you if you are struggling to let go of besetting sins.