Hotel Rooms and Hand Grenades

The Dreaded Hotel Room

As many of you know, I’ve been collecting and reading stories for my second book. There’s a foolish move I’ve seen mentioned several times: checking into a hotel room with the boyfriend/girlfriend. It always goes something like this:

“We checked into a hotel room. We weren’t planning for anything to happen, but . . . ”

Wait a minute. Let’s think about this. You checked into a room and got horizontal with someone you were wildly attracted to . . . and you didn’t think anything bad would happen? Am I missing something?

What Part of “Run” Don’t You Understand?

How does God instruct us to deal with sexual temptation? It’s pretty clear:

Run from sexual sin!
-1st Corinthians 6:18

Run from anything that stimulates youthful lusts.
2nd Timothy 2:22

There you have it: Run! Get away! Flee!

I often compare sexual temptation to hand grenades. Once the pin is pulled, you have two choices: 1. Get far away. 2. Get destroyed. No one would take a couple of steps away and assume he’s safe.

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If we want to win the battle for sexual purity, we have to do it God’s way. This means avoiding tempting situations—not walking straight into them.

Confessions of a Frightened Public Speaker (Part 2)

But God chose the foolish things of the world to shame the wise; God chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong. -1st Corinthians :1:27

Last week was just . . . well . . . awesome!  I’m amazed when I think about what God did in Iloilo City.  The Lord really took me out of my comfort zone, putting me in front of very large groups (some over 1,000).

I heard a lot of encouraging feedback after I preached.  This never ceases to amaze me–that God could use an introvert like me to preach His message.

“God uses men who are weak and feeble enough to lean on him.”
-Hudson Taylor, Missionary to China