Confessions of a Frightened Public Speaker

Imagine this: A large room or auditorium packed with students. Maybe there are 200 of them; or maybe even 900+. The seminar starts off in a typical fashion, with opening remarks and the national anthem or the school hymn. Finally you are introduced as the guest speaker and it is your turn. For the next hour or two, you will be educating, inspiring, and to a certain extent entertaining some young minds.

Does this sound like a dream come true for you? It is for me too. To be completely honest, it is also my worst nightmare come true.

Here’s what I mean: I am by nature shy and therefore completely terrified of public speaking. “Hindi halata” (it isn’t obvious) is what most people say when I disclose this little secret. It may not be obvious, but it is true.

Maybe you think I am exaggerating. I’m not. I was the kid who hated doing a presentation in front of the class. The more people present, the quieter I became.

I remember one of the first youth Sundays we had at church. I had to lead the whole congregation (300+) in a prayer. I came down from the safety of the choir loft and bowed my head before I got anywhere near the microphone. I walked up to the microphone, gulped, and managed to utter a short prayer, not daring to look at the congregation again until I had made it back to the safety of the choir loft.

I kind of wondered if God knew what He was doing when he called me to serve Him. Ministers get up in front of people to preach and teach. “I’m not sure I can do that,” I thought to myself. When I think about God’s calling on my life, I think of the conversation He had with Moses:

Exodus 3:10-12
But Moses pleaded with the Lord, “O Lord, I’m not very good with words. I never have been, and I’m not now, even though you have spoken to me. I get tongue-tied, and my words get tangled.”

Then the Lord asked Moses, “Who makes a person’s mouth? Who decides whether people speak or do not speak, hear or do not hear, see or do not see? Is it not I, the Lord? Now go! I will be with you as you speak, and I will instruct you in what to say.”

I can relate to the fears that Moses had. I don’t really remember arguing with God when He began calling me. I knew Him well enough to know that I wouldn’t win the argument. My church supported me and even allowed me to preach my first sermon to them on a Wednesday night. “Nervous” cannot even begin to describe the way I felt. “God,” I prayed, “this has to be the craziest thing I have ever attempted in my life. If this is a disaster, it is your fault.”

The sermon went pretty well, but hopefully I’ve improved as a speaker over time. The rest is, as they say, history. Never in my wildest dreams would I have imagined the opportunities God has given me. It is all because of Him. Just as Moses would have been content to live his days in the desert, I would have been content never once speaking in public.

I’ll quote another stanza from “Just Like You” by Jacob’s Trouble:

Well I’m staring down the barrel of a loaded microphone
While a crowd of faces wait expectantly
Well I wonder what you’ve come for
And I wonder what you need
And I wonder why you’re listening to me
Cause I don’t have the answers, baby I can’t get it right
But I’ll to my best to point you to the light, tonight

I still get nervous sometimes when I am about to preach or present a seminar. Sometimes it is still hard to believe anyone would want to listen to me. This is the wonderful thing about God–He takes us out of our “comfort zone” and uses us in ways we never would have imagined.

Maybe you think that God looks for the most talented people and calls them. Maybe you think you are not gifted enough to do anything for God. Don’t ever believe that. God isn’t looking for great talent, just complete obedience.

Trust Him.

You can’t, but God can.

Blessings to you,
Kuya Kevin

Just Like You

I have a confession to make. I’m just like you.

1 Corinthians 15:10
But by the grace of God I am what I am . . .

There’s so much profound truth in this little statement the Bible. I want all of you to know that this verse is true for my life—I am what I am only because of the grace of God.

Grace means that God gives us favor even though we don’t deserve it. God has forgiven me of all of my sins even though I don’t deserve it. He allows me to serve him even though I don’t deserve it. He has saved me and given me a place in heaven even though I don’t deserve it.

Recently I started listening to and old CD of mine by a Christian band called Jacob’s Trouble. I especially like a song called “Just Like You.” Here are excerpts of the lyrics:

If I seem to have the answers,
If I seem larger than life,
If I seem to be so holier than though,
If I seem to have my act together,
And everything’s just right,
If seems to you my hand is on the plow

Call it an illusion baby, call it what you like
But there’s one thing you must understand tonight

(chorus)
I make all the same mistakes that you do
I fall flat on my face just like you do
I cry out for mercy just like you do
I fall on my knees and pray
Just like you do—I’m just like you

Well I struggle to be honest
And I struggle to be brave
And I try to give away this heart of mine
Well I try to keep my balance on this tiny little wire
And I try to keep my pearls away from swine

You might see me stumble, and you’ll probably see me fall
But then for the grace of Jesus go us all

The lyrics are even more meaningful to me today than they were fifteen years ago (when I first became a fan). Perhaps you think ministers, pastors or missionaries have conquered all of our struggles. Not true. I still need God’s grace every day. I pretty much have the same struggles, temptations, and fears that you do.

That’s the amazing thing about grace and a relationship with God. We need His grace until the day we die. The more we grow spiritually, the more we see that we need Him.

I want to be a good example for all of you students. I hope that when you see me you are inspired to grow closer to God. Just remember that I am no better than you. I am what I am only because of God’s grace. If God can change me, He can change you. If God can use me, He can use you.

I hope you know what is like to experience God’s grace and power in your life. Please contact me if you do not know how.