2022: The Year in Review

It’s time for me to write another post and reflect on the passing year. This post may not be as long as some that I’ve written, but here goes:

Budget Crunch

I’ll start out with the bad news: this was a tough year financially. Record-level inflation, increased costs of living, and high gas prices made things difficult (I’m sure many who are reading this can relate). But it was also one of those years where it seemed that anything that could break did (I’m talking about expensive stuff, like car engines and teeth).

This may come across as a complaint, but it isn’t intended that way. I want to look back at this blog post and remember God’s faithfulness and provisions. We are blessed!

School Days

Clark began attending pre-kindergarten a nearby school this year. He loves his teachers and classmates, and wants to get up and attend every morning. It’s yet another reminder that the time is flying by and he’s growing up.

First Day of School

School did seem to bring some extra sniffles and sneezes into our lives, but that’s OK, too–might as well let Clark build up his immunity.

Notable Books

I didn’t read quite as many books this year (something I need to change next year). Anyway, I did read Trueman’s The Rise and Triumph of the Modern Self. This book was kind of an autopsy of Western civilization. In other words, the author explained how we have reached such an absurd place in Western thought–a place where believing in objective biological realities about gender is now considered narrow-minded and bigoted. This book was helpful for cultural understanding but a bit difficult to slog through. I wish I had instead read Strange New World, Trueman’s newer book. I hear that it is updated and more readable (less academically oriented).

I also read James Snyder’s The Life of A.W. Tozer: In Pursuit of God. I’ve always loved Tozer’s writing, but I’ve never taken the time to learn much about his life. Snyder did a commendable job of describing both Tozer’s deep love for God and his flaws as a family man. Tozer was faithful to his wife, but he was emotionally distant as a husband and father. This shocked me and I’m still not sure how to wrap my mind around it (definitely another reason to avoid hero worship of one’s favorite preacher/author). Snyder was even-handed as a biographer: honest but not overly critical. I found this book to be very compelling and finished it quickly.

Church/Ministry

Some really good things happened in our church this year. Covid was no longer an issue (at least not in the way it has been) and we’ve had some new younger couples join our church. We also had a good friend of mine who is a pastor join our congregation. I’m thankful for these blessings! This was the first time in a couple of years that we’ve been able to return to a full ministry schedule (vacation Bible school, trunk or treat, etc.).

Trunk or Treat 2022

I finished preaching through Romans and I’m now preaching through the Gospel of Matthew. The more I study God’s word the more I find myself in awe of it!

Family

God continued to bless our family this year. We’ve enjoyed watching our son grow up, another year of marriage, and we’ve had opportunities to visit my family in Alabama. We came to celebrate dad’s birthday back in May and we are spending the holidays in Alabama as I write (first time since 2015).

Future

2023 has already thrown us one little curve ball: we will be celebrating the first couple of days of it here in Alabama instead of Texas. Our return flight was one of thousands that were cancelled by Southwest. That’s no big deal, especially considering that I wrote about God’s prerogative to change our plans.

I know 2023 will be full of challenges, opportunities, and changes. I’m looking forward to seeing what He does through all of these.

Happy New Year!

Runny Noses, Messy Stalls, and a Full Heart

The Season of Sneezing

It’s been an eventful few weeks in the Sanders household–the kind of eventfulness most of us could do without. It seems Covid has displaced other viruses for the past year or two, leading to a particularly rough cold and flu season.

My family has not been spared. The first wave of sickness hit about a week after we had Trunk or Treat at our church. Cris and I had fairly mild symptoms, but Clark had a more difficult time. He had a fever that would come and go. Worse still, he would either cough or cry (or both) starting at around 3 or 4 in the morning for several days straight. We went about a week without at good night’s sleep.

We all got over that bug and figured we were done with sickness for a while. We were wrong. Clark and Cris both started having flu-like symptoms last week. Cris has been having body pain, mild fever and nasal congestion. Clark has been having a high fever and nasal congestion.

The Texas Chainsaw Massacre

Saturday and Sunday morning went something like this: Clark woke up at 4:00 a.m., crying and seeking parental comfort. I took him with me to the extra bedroom to see if everyone could get a few more hours of sleep. Clark went back to sleep with me by his side. But the four-year-old’s severe congestion made his slumber sound like a small chainsaw. I never would have imagined such a small body could produce such a loud snore.

Going back to my room wasn’t much of an option: Cris, who also had nasal congestion, wasn’t sleeping very quietly either. More importantly, there was a good chance Clark would wake up, follow me in there, and interrupt what little sleep my wife was able to get.

One of these 4:00 a.m. wake-up calls was yesterday, a Sunday, which means I preached in this sleep-deprived state. I joked with a few people about the possibility of falling asleep during my own sermon. God gave me the strength to preach His word and enjoy fellowship with the congregation.

I ended up taking Clark to a nearby urgent care last night. We were a little concerned that his fever had not gone away after several days (and we knew strep throat was going around). He was diagnosed with the flu–no strep throat.

The High Price of Clean Stalls

I’ve been thinking about a verse from Proverbs in light of these recent events:

Where there are no oxen, the manger is clean,
    but abundant crops come by the strength of the ox.

-Proverbs 14:4

The point of this Bible verse is pretty simple: there’s no cleaning up to do when there are empty stalls. But empty stalls also mean you have no animals to work the field. It’s much better to clean feeding troughs than to lack a harvest.

There’s a point I’m getting to–one directly related to the proverb I’ve just quoted.

There was a time, not too long ago, when I never had to worry about having my sleep interrupted at 4:00 a.m. or wrestling with an uncooperative boy in a doctor’s office.

But that household quietness did come with a price of its own. I was alone.

I’m not saying that my previously single life was meaningless, joyless, or void of purpose. I still smile when I think about carefree jeepney rides on the streets of Manila.

But I also wouldn’t trade anything for what I have now. I’m profoundly grateful to have a wife and son to love and care for.

Today this proverb will come to mind every time I reach for a tissue to wipe my son’s nose.

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