Part Two: Observations of a Protector
I greatly appreciate all your comments re: The Two Types of Men.
I’d like to ad a few more thoughts to this discussion.
It seems some of you are discouraged with the number of “predator” men out there. I understand your frustration, and I’m glad you feel like you can talk openly about it here. But I also want to gently remind you of a few important truths.
While protectors are rare, women who wait for protectors are also rare. Sooner or later, every woman learns she can’t win with a predator. The issue is the amount of time, energy, emotion, and intimacy she’ll waste before she comes to her senses. A wise woman learns her lesson quickly, but many insist on learning the hard way.
It isn’t just the women who suffer when the predator “wins.” The protector suffers as well. He is not blessed when women invite jerks into their hearts (and beds).
Remember, it is your responsibility to choose wisely. You can’t blame others if you settle for the wrong kind of man.
Choose wisely, my sisters!
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