When it comes to relationships, I believe there are basically two types of men: protectors and predators. I’ll describe each.
As the name implies, a protector is interested in protecting the heart, purity, and reputation of any woman he is in a relationship with. He wants to postpone sex until marriage, and his actions prove it. A protector puts her needs before his own. The woman in his life feels completely safe: she feels loved, honored and at peace with her own conscience.
A predator is not safe to be with. He is primarily interested in his own wants, and women are simply a means to that end. A predator can be charming, smooth, persuasive, and manipulative—after all, he must carefully disguise his true nature and intentions. He seeks his own gratification, indifferent to the harm he causes. Sooner or later, the woman in his life loses: she loses her innocence, self-respect, and maybe more.
Ladies, what kind of men are you choosing?
Men, what kind of man are you choosing to be?
See also: The Two Types of Men, Part 2
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